If you love him, fight for him

Being in love seems to be the nicest feeling in the world, they say. But it only is the nicest thing when you share the feeling with the right one. Being in love makes you do crazy things and think crazy thoughts. I have been in love with one and the same boy for 5 years and counting. I've met him in high school. He is no Mr. Popular. He is no Mr. Good Looks. He is no Mr. Moneybags. He's simply himself, the reason I fell deeply in love with him.

The 5 years we've been together wasn't easy all the time, it wasn't happy all the time. Like what normal couples do; we fight, we make up. But what makes us unique from all others is we surely finds way to be okay in the midst of arguments, we don't usually go to bed hot-headed. We're normal, we're not perfect but we definitely are one of a kind. Our love for each other makes up for all the imperfections we have.

Photo taken 7/16/2011 Ateneo Fiesta Opening Night

All the time we've been together was not smooth sailing as what people may see. As I said, we're not perfect. We've been on the rocks for a very long time but we stayed together. One or both of us was close to giving up but I made sure that before we decide on things, we think over everything and see if it's all worth it. After some time, we didn't talk about our problems and mistakes anymore. We were just surprised one day that we were not fighting and arguing anymore. We're happy again!

There are a lot of things I learned from him and so did he from me. We've learned different things from all the experiences we had together. But most importantly, for me, I learned to love unconditionally. I learned to be contented on what I have. I turned into someone worth loving without him forcing me to change. I learned that everything can be solved with small talks and a little understanding. I learned a lot and it would take much to put everything in here.

It all boils down to one thing, if it's true love, you're ready to fight for him no matter what. If you're truly in love, there's no need for excuses and reasons, it's just love. If you're truly in love, you can't stand being apart from him even though you've just parted ways and you know you'll see each other again tomorrow. If you're truly in love, you'd do anything to fix arguments even though it's not your fault and you won't put blames. It shows that you're both in love when you still have fun talking about things you've talked about a million times, doing things you've done a billion times and when you say i love you and i miss you a gazillion times and you don't get tired of it.

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